Kicking Desperation to the Curb!!

Getting desperate and looking (pleading) for an answer is a part of the break-up process. The pain that is endured at the end of a relationship is one of the hardest things to cope with. So how do you begin to heal? Well, I suggest a big box of Kleenex, a positive friend and a sharp pair of scissors to sign your name on the hood of his car. At 30 years old I have learned two important lessons in life. One, a cheating man will never tell the truth even when you are begging, crying and pleading for answers and two, he will sing like a bird when he sees a sharp object next to his finest commodity.  REALITY CHECK! I am sure this idea has crossed your mind a least a dozen times, but going to jail and having charges brought up against you will only make the situation worse.   I know his careless words, thoughtless actions, and untimely departure has your panties in a bunch but together we can make it through this crisis.  Webster's Dictionary defines the word crisis as:

CRISIS: an unstable or crucial time or state of affairs in which a decisive change is impending

Well if Webster, a man I am sure, can define it we can sure use it when dealing with a break-up. I am sure I have one skeptic or hater, reading this blog and saying, “Who in the hell are these people and how can they give advice. What are their credentials?”  Well, Sugar and Spice are two educated women who have been through, let’s define the word again, more than one, CRISIS: an unstable or crucial time or state of affairs in which a decisive change is impending.  In other words, we are tired of men getting some ass and walking away unscathed. If you are looking for help for the following things you’ve logged onto the right site:

1. Saving Grace: I need to save my relationship
2. Gone with the Wind: I need to heal myself
3. Back in the Saddle: Better decisions for better men
4. Pay Check: Getting what he deserves

We hope this blog becomes a forum for women to discuss, learn and heal.  We have all done things we are too ashamed to tell even our closest friend...but maybe under the cover of the oh so big world wide web, we can all CONFESS and get the sense slapped back into us.  Feel free to tell your stories and don't be ashamed.  If Halle Berry has a hard time keeping a man, Lord knows some of us are going to need some serious help!! (lol)